It’s that time of year again. You’re inundated with sales advertisements, a rush to find the choice gift of the year while maneuvering the most awkward of conversations at your next family holiday get-together. The holidays are a minefield of questions, judgment, overindulgence, and consumerism. It’s a glorified mess… and you need to survive it so we’ve constructed a list of what you need to get through the holidays with your sanity and happiness intact.